March 1994 Issue [Essay] On Not Being a Victim Download PDF Adjust Share Sex, rape, and the trouble with following rules by Mary Gaitskill, This article is only available as a PDF to subscribers. Download PDF Tags 20th century Acquaintance rape Mary Gaitskill Psychological aspects Psychology Rape Rape victims Self-defense for women Sex role Sexual consent United States More from Mary Gaitskill Nice Girls When I was growing up in the 1960s, I was taught by the adult world that good girls never had sex and bad girls did. This rule had clarity going… The little boy Adjust Share