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From headlines given to letters published by the New York Times between 2009 and 2023.

Is It OK to Marry an Amnesiac?

Is It OK to Press Your Spouse to Have a Vasectomy Before You Ditch Him?

Is It OK to Dump Him Because of His Medical Condition?

Is It OK to Blog About This Woman Anonymously?

Is It OK That My Sister Secretly Records Our Dad for Laughs?

Is It OK That I’m OK With Our Mom’s Adultery?

Is It OK to Find Sexual Satisfaction Outside Your Marriage?

Is It OK to Cheat on My Broker?

Is It OK That Our Friends Are Constantly Suing People?

Is It OK to Use Money Raised for a Child’s Cancer Care on a Car?

Is It OK to Double-Cross a Swindler?

Is It OK to Force-Feed Prisoners?

Is It OK to Let My Relatives Think Their Dead Sister Is Still Alive?

When Is It OK to Be a Snitch?